Thursday, February 14, 2008

To Love My Enemy

A little while ago the New York Giants, who were the lowest rated team in the playoffs, having barely made a wild-card spot, faced and beat the New England Patriots, who were speculated by some to be the best team in NFL history. The Giants won in a upset of epic proportions.
I was in attendance at our church's youth Super Bowl Party to witness this spectacular event, and at half-time one of my best friends, Jared, gave a message about doing all to the glory of God. He mentioned a 60 Minutes interview with Tom Brady in which he stated that in spite of his astounding success, he did not feel satisfied.
Now the Patriots had, throughout the season, cheated, played dirty, taunted other teams, and generally conducted themselves in rather arrogant manners. Even ESPN called their coach, Bill Belichick, the "evil" coach in their coverage of the Colts/Patriots game (which they called good vs. evil). As a result of their attitudes, I despised them as a team. I made many jokes about them, referring to Brady and Belichick as Darth Vader and Emperor Palpatine. When the Colts defeated the Patriots last year, I said to the crowd I was with: "And when the game is over, Manning will throw the ring into Mount Doom and Belichick will be destroyed!"

Everyone laughed. Everyone agreed.

But then God began moving in me, and here is what He showed me.
Tom Brady has spent his entire life pursuing and acquiring the things of this world that will not last, realizing somewhere that these things do not fulfill but being at a loss as to what does, and is well on his way to suffering Hell and eternal wrath, and instead of my heart utterly breaking for him, I instead make a joke out of his wickedness.

I have laughed at his depravity. And I am greatly ashamed. Now my heart breaks.

Of course he is a jerk! Of course he is arrogant! Of course he can be dishonest! He does not have Christ, and that is the only difference between me and this man I have despised. I have been rescued and he is still drowning, and I stand on the shore and mock him as he takes his last breaths. Of course he is my enemy and God's, and I am not loving my enemy.

Now if your child were to contract cancer, you would not rejoice. They are your child, and you love them dearly. Indeed, would you not cry out to God with many tears that He heal them? This is why Proverbs 24:17-18 says that we should not rejoice when our enemy falls, and that God will turn His wrath on us if we do. Loving does not simply mean abstaining from the celebration of their downfall, but actively and passionately praying and interceding on their behalf against God's vengeance on them... and we must pray this with much the same fervor, brokenness, and determination as a parent would against a cancerous disease in their child. That is loving your enemy.



Matthew 5:44, Proverbs 2:17-18, Romans 12:19-21

4 comments:

Anonymous said...

wow awesome Doug :), its encouraging to see God work in you and show you how to grow closer to God and ultimately show love to others. I love u man.
check out 1 Peter 2:1-3 relates kinda to what u said in the blog :).
Thanks Doug for being there for me when i wasnt following God and thanks for encouraging me in ways i can not describe. i really do love you. Don't lose hope, always follow God, and have no fear of man.

Jacob Cothran

Nightshine said...

Wow Doug. This is truly amazing.
It's ironic becuase I've been thinking alot about this subject also. There's a person in my life who isn't a christian and wont listen to me talk to him about God at all. And I've realized lately that I turned completely bitter towards him. And in reading your blog I've realized instead of trying harder to understand him and help him more, I've given him the cold shoulder and haven't talked to him.
What what kind of witness am I being when I do that?

I love you Doug. This blog is truly awesome. As are you.

-Cyn

travlnchica said...

Well you are a funny guy Doug, maybe now your hilarious comments will be aimed in another direction which is still cool though. :) This was a good reminder. It makes me think of how you can only love God as much as you dislike the next person. I probably butchered that quote, but you get my drift! Thanks for sharing. -Leah

Unknown said...

Very true Doug... boy oh boy is this hard to remember though... hmmmm very convicting... how can you stand on dry land, safe from harm and laugh at someone drowning? Yet, we do this all the time....wow..... I know you can't see me, but I am shaking my head in shame.